Mom, how can you plan everything around the codepedence of your mother and son while also being so bad with money

2022.01.19 01:44 YhormBIGGiant Mom, how can you plan everything around the codepedence of your mother and son while also being so bad with money

I am at odds with this. We were broke once, we really were but now it seems we are not my mother does so much stuff to the house to make it (scuse my slang) "Bougie as fuck" and never seems to not have her or her bf spend on something instead of keeping money in check. They are both state to state truck drivers and I HATE THIS, i suggested 3 years ago that she should probably try local and her defense is "imma do my own thing" basically and bow she is gone for months in end, comes home, has her bf/hubby (idk anymore ok, she blasted through 3 relationships in my life and the ine that made me was rough).
So not only does my mother have enough money to get a big tv, tv mount, TWO ELECTRIC COUCHES WE DO NOT BOTHER USING THE RECLINING FEATURE ON ONE, and a xoffee table with those nifty hidden compartments that we ALSO dont use, she has also paid to tile up a side room THEN WALL IT OFF JUST TO MAKE A NEW DOORWAY IN THE ADJACENT ROOM THAT IT WAS CONNECTED TO (it was a gym once then they gave up on that as soon as I started to work out so all the equipment is now in the shed, so thanks for that >:[ ), but also pay off our neighbor that we are friends with to paint over our house and THEN SPEND MONEY ON A FRENCH BULLDOG FOR "BREEDING PURPOSES" WHEN YOUR NEVER HERE AND HE IS LEFT SAD AND WASTING IN A KENNEL (it is depressing as hell and henis never properly trained and he is not fixed so he got too much energy for a 10-6 21 yr old and a getting older grandma and a 15 yr old with after school). And yet you still are so reliant on your Son and Mother that if one or both of us go. You are doomed with a capital DOOM
The fact that Im pretty much being treated as their safety net pisses me off, i have no idea how anyone can act like this in any culture and expect their kids to respect them or give them any sort of proper love.
Unconditional love is not a fairly given love and never will be in my eyes, it is the feeling that you have for someone who kept you alive and thus ingrained to feel some pity for them but at this point I would rather be ready to move out.
I despise florida for overpriced apartments or else I would have been with a friend and their bud in a 3 bedroom.
My room has remained unchanged since middle school and yet my younger sister has gotten a new bedframe and then some. They always talked about "we gotta get you a new table" and they never did, "we gotta get you a new bedframe"and they never did. They never have gotten me anything to catch up my room to my age. Im still sleeping in a bedframe with a guitar motif in it. My sister also has the bigger bed while I have had a twin for YEARS.
Its clear the bias is real and im sick of it.
I do not know how to do laundry cause "thats your grandmas job". This also goes for cooking as well and since "a parents word is law"in my culture im basically at a loss and her cuck ass bf is too playful wasted money on a small boat just to sell and then get a jetski WHICH THEY WONT USE FOR AGES CAUSE THEY ARE TOO BUSY TRUCKING OUT OF STATE.
I hate this. This is not realistic decisions. I hate this materilisticness im fucking tired of it all. If I had control of the money i might be able to balance it out but no, all this wasted money on expensive crap all while i end up annoying at the butt of it all. Im not even directly communicated with and im expected to make the first move as if "im your mother" is a good enough reason for anything anymore
Hell im helping a friend with their rent and its becoming obvious they might work with me. We could cover it with ease and no fuss.
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2022.01.19 01:44 Foldsumcake How can tier 10 games be so bad ಠ_ಠ

So first game of the day, tier 10 game, Himmelsdorf, my team pretty much splits 50/50 between banana road and railway tracks. I'm in my E6 and go hill alone, now I know replies are gonna be "DoNt Go OfF bY yOuRsElF". I intended on getting spots on what enemy tanks went hill, so hopefully some of my team mates realise leaving the hill totally open is a bad idea and could fall back to help. I get a couple shots into a Conway, bounce 2 off an E5, a TVP 50/51 appears and all 3 realise I am by myself so rush me. I hook it back to our spawn, only to be met by the enemies who rolled our guys on banana road. Game over. Thanks, just having a rant
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We already know they are still cutting content given their promise of 2 ultimates per expansion but in interviews leading up to EW, they stated we might only be getting the single Ultimate that was cut from Shadowbringers in this expansion.
So what do you guys think? Will we see that second ultimate that was promised a while back but now seems to be unpromised even though the ultimate we are getting is older cut/delayed content?
Given their record of cutting content in favor of "higher quality" additions to other aspects of the game I would not be surprised I'm not sure where this increase in money is going because clearly it's not to developing more content.
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2022.01.19 01:44 SwanRonson57 Should I even get this game?

So I have been interested in playing EFT for a couple years but never had the ability until now. However, from what I have seen on this subreddit, there seem to be tons of complaining about how many cheaters there are and how almost every other raid they die from a cheater.
Now, I already know that you have to somewhat be a masochist in order to enjoy EFT, but I don't know if I'm enough of a masochist to deal with a game that is based around realism, but half the games are ruined by some guy flying around one-tapping people. So how prevalent really is the cheating, and will it ruin my time?
P.S. I stopped playing games like Battlefield because the anti-cheat in those games were abysmal, and this seems like it could be as bad or worse.
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2022.01.19 01:44 notsearchingthesky hi guys i'd really appreciate if yall have any advice for coming out at work

so i started this job at a local kfc about 4 weeks ago, ive done about 5 shifts a week so pretty much everyone knows me. about 90% of the employees are under 25 so i find it pretty likely theyll be accepting im just really scared. one of my friends who im out to is gonna get a job there so i have to come out before then because otherwise itll be really weird lol. currently im thinking ill tell my favourite manager and maybe a couple of the work friends that im closer to and kinda ask them to inform other people because that would be less scary but idk. theres also a whatsapp chat that everyones on which i could come out on but i feel like that would be really awkward and telling someone in person would be better.
please anyone with advice or personal experience feel free to comment, im really anxious abt this :)
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