2021.12.08 21:19 kenchilada Four Kids, Four Switches?
I have a big family. Four kids and another on the way. We now have four switches.
Do I have to buy FOUR copies of a game for them to be able to all play multiplayer together?
And even if I link them to my Nintendo Online account, only one console could play a digital game at a time?
Any suggestions on how best to do this?
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2021.12.08 21:19 natalia_g_01 Is this manipulation?
TW: Suicide, miscarriage, abortion.
I dated him for over a year. During that time, we endured a miscarriage and an abortion. Well I endured it. He wasn’t present at all for the miscarriage, and wasn’t really there for me during the abortion either. While I was passing our baby during the miscarriage, he thought it appropriate to call me many names, such as cunt, attention whore, bitch, and to accuse me of having it just for attention. I had simply asked him to check up on me as it was a very painful process, and I was scared and going through it alone. I sat on the toilet for hours, crying and terrified, while he was too selfish to ever initiate contact and ask how I was doing. I had asked him if he could just text me during it to make sure I was alright, I have never been in that much pain before, and it was so scary doing that alone. It wasn’t just my baby, it was his too, but he treated me as if I was a stranger. He didn’t want me to text him how it was going while I was at that moment passing our baby over the toilet, because “it hurt him”. He would rather me suffer in silence alone than care to know how I, the woman he got pregnant, was doing in that situation. I later would go on to have a really bad infection that was caused by the miscarrriage, to the point where it required going to the hospital. Rather than support me, or even care, he proceeds to call me awful things the night I got back from the hospital, and ghost me for the week, while I was recovering and unable to move or take care of myself. This was the day where he truly called me vile things, as I was too weak to even move. I couldn’t walk to the kitchen to get myself something to eat. It was that bad. He wouldn’t even take a phone call from my doctor for the sake of my health. While this was going on, I was dealing with postpartum depression, and it hurt my soul to know that the man who got me pregnant did not care enough about me to treat me as a human being during one of the hardest times of my life. He knew how much the miscarriage effected me, he just didn’t care. If it wasn’t about himself, he had absolutely no interest. It was always about him, and his needs were always catered to, not mine. I would do everything for him. I would cook, write him notes, take care of him whenever he needed me, and get him gifts. I was so sweet to a boy too selfish to reciprocate. He didn’t care when I had panic attacks, he would leave me to figure them out by myself. But when the tables were turned, God knows I was there supporting him. I even remember a specific instance where I was having really bad cramps while I was pregnant, and he was too busy playing his video game to comfort me. He waited until he could save in his stupid game rather than immediately see how I was doing. He had a way of constantly making me feel bad about doing anything. He left me to feel inadequate. I was never enough for him. I was made to not feel pretty enough, I didn’t dress “edgy” enough, I was never enough. Someone who contributed so little left me feeling like it was all my fault. He always spins everything on someone or something else. I don’t think he’s ever genuinely taken accountability for anything in his life ever.
Why I got back together with him after what he did I will never know. That was a mistake on my part. When we got back together, any effort on his end completely tanked. He made me feel crazy for wanting a note or flowers, just once, even teasing me about it every time we went to a store that sold them. He would point to flowers and such, and say things like “I should probably get you some so you can stop complaining”. (He never did by the way.) He even called me wanting him to write me a note for our anniversary, which I ended up getting him a nice present for, “materialistic”. He also promised me a dinner, but he never keeps up with his promises, ever. He made me feel awful for ever wanting to talk about my feelings. He didn’t want to hear that his actions hurt me, and would instead silence me. He did this for small things such as showing love, to bigger ones like pregnancy loss.
He unfortunately ended up getting me pregnant again. This time it was healthy. I was a wreck after the miscarriage. Initially when I found out, I immediately wanted it out of me and gone, I was scared. Time went on however, and I had to carry it for a month before the first available appointment. As I was consciously aware I was pregnant, I started to have doubts, and would go back and forth. It was an extremely difficult time in my life. Every time I wanted to have a healthy conversation about it with him, he would resort to threats and would get crazy. He told me multiple times that he would kill himself if I had the baby. It put me in such an awful position, and I was honestly terrified by the person who was supposed to take care of me and protect me through that awful period of my life. This, and the fact that he was not in a good place mentally, he asked me to not talk to him at all about anything negative. I abided. I cared more about him than I did myself while I was pregnant, and looking back, I wish I didn’t give him the time of day. I kept it in when he told me he would kill himself if I didn’t abide by the choice he wanted, I kept it in all the times he exploded on me and attacked me for no reason, I kept it in when he treated me like shit while I was pregnant. He thought it was okay, and that it was funny, while I was pregnant, to fake propose to me at a restaurant. I was devastated, because for a second I thought he was being serious, and maybe had a change of heart to the situation at hand. He couldn’t even hold the door open for me on the way out, his excuse being he didn’t want to hold it open for the people walking behind me. He saw I was upset, and instead of being mature about it, what does he do? He calls his mom and asks for her two cents, not allowing me to tell him my true feelings. I was always just the pit of his jokes. My feelings never mattered to him. He constantly made jokes at my expense all the time. But in his mind, it’s okay, “because I don’t deserve respect”. He treated me like this our whole relationship, but the fact he could continue while I was pregnant and in an awful position, is despicable.
I ended up going through the abortion, albeit with hardships. Two days before the procedure I did not want to do, he went crazy. He accused me of faking it, and again, threatened his life, and told me he would hurt himself if I was lying. I left my job early to go to the store and take a pregnancy test to prove it to him. He then does a complete 180 and changes his mood completely and apologizes. The stress he gave me, in a situation where I was already at my max is not acceptable. I got the abortion, and I felt that he felt it over. The period following he didn’t want me to get into my emotions regarding it, and would instead just mask it. I wasn’t allowed to tell him any negativity towards it. We were putting it on pause to deal with when he was better able to take care of me. He got worse, and I put his needs before my own. I took care of him, while I was going through the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through, crying every chance I got away from him. I did nice things for him, got him gifts, took care of him, and none of it was returned. He dumped me over the phone after two weeks of treating me like dogshit. He used me. I would do things for him, get him things, he wouldn’t give me, my health, nor my feelings the time of day. He dumped me a month after the abortion he coerced me into having. He didn’t have a gun to my head and made me, but he is outlandish if he thinks that his blatant manipulation and abuse didn’t heavily coerce me into having it. He broke up over the phone, too cowardly to do it in person despite just one month prior I had his child in my womb. Once he saw that I was no longer carrying it, he felt it appropriate to throw me out like a toy he no longer wanted to play with. It’s disgusting, especially after he made all these promises to me to never repeat what happened with the miscarriage. He promised to be there for me, talk through things, and protect me. He did none of that. He is not a man, not a good boyfriend, he’s not even a good person. He always has an excuse for his abuse. We were broken up during the miscarriage, which was his reasoning for not being there for me, and was his justification for calling me all those names while I was in physical pain. During the abortion, his excuse was that even though we were dating, we weren’t married, so he didn’t feel that he had to support me. It wasn’t his responsibility. A month and a half after his sudden and coldhearted dumping, he tried reaching out. I vented my frustrations towards him and wanted to work through it. This has been so impossible to process without the love and support of the partner who should care about my well being. He proceeds to block me again after I vented my feelings about everything he has done to me. He couldn’t handle me telling him the things he did, which honestly had piled up after a few months of not being able to tell him anything about the abuse he put me through.
Him: I’m not doing this Nat if you have this I’ll fucking kill myself I swear to God. This is bullshit. I’m not getting stuck in this shit. I’ll fucking do it right now. I don’t care. Me: Don’t. I’m sorry I said anything. I’ll just keep it to myself from now on. Please don’t do anything irrational.
Him: My baby is (enter music here). And you’re set to abort that too. Me: Don’t compare our child to something like that. That’s human life. Him: That’s my vaporwave.
Me: I am mourning my child. Him: What child? What gender? What was its name? Me: It had a heartbeat. Him: It’s name was heartbeat. My dick has a heartbeat. I’ll chop it off. Me: It was your child too. How could you not care in the slightest? Him: Because it pisses you off and I live to hurt you.
Him: It’s 50% mine and I elect it to not exist so there you go. Nothing you can do about it now anyways. Me: How can you be so cruel? When you were literally involved. It was 50% yours. Him: Now it’s 100% non-existent. What are you going to do about it? Nothing.
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2021.12.08 21:19 judijo621 A new hem plastic thingy? Ultimate sweater machine
I am trying... Really I am. Two full afternoons I have tried to get this thing to not jam. I have achieved exactly 4 rows before it jams or drops stitches. And now one of the little straps in the weighted hem tool has torn. 1} is the tool useable with a broken strap? 2} I saw a video where someone was using a wide steel tool with a line of hooks. Have you used this tool instead of the plastic one? Success?
Thanks in advance.
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2021.12.08 21:19 FallCompetitive7976 09-December I am still here
2021.12.08 21:19 remotelyroot Whats yall think? Nyc auto (left) and n-lights auto (right)
2021.12.08 21:19 Uatarreu 3060 TI and Ryzen 7 3800x can't handle rattay?
Hey guys, I have a question -
Is it normal that even though i'm running the game on a 3060TI and a Ryzen7 3800x, I get huge fps drops in Rattay?
I was playing on ultra and everything was smooth as hell, solid 60fps, but as soon as I walked into Rattay at night, my fps dropped to 30.... Even after setting everything to High, i'm still not getting a solid 60, it's floating around 45-55 fps.
Is it normal? Is the game just that heavy?
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2021.12.08 21:19 jssjnsnsnsns the original flag of vinkaland, designed 2002, changed in 2007
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2021.12.08 21:19 pppp__ An update to the mysterious coin situation. I found an old eBay listing from picclick.com which looks very similar to mine. It is apparently an Agnus Dei medieval pewter jeton. There were a lot of jeton designs which looked similar, but weren’t the same. Does anyone has anymore information?
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2021.12.08 21:19 Naive_Ability_9574 DAE think it’s weird in most countries we only get out last name from your dad?
Maybe not most? Idk 😬
This debate came up in AmItheAsshole About kids and last names. And it made it brought some repressed annoyance an out this topic. Like honestly your bio mother literally birthed you, created your literal existence and yet having her last name is wrong. He said it was because it would be “too long” I personally have both my fathers and my mothers last name. They were married when I was born but in my culture it’s the normal to have both last names. Yet her in the US people will fight you on this. I feel like mom has dibs or her kid. Is it just me that’s bothered by this?
Men would you absolutely refuse to have wife/partners last name also and why?
Woman do you care if your kid has your last name or not and why? Or would you have preferred they did?
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2021.12.08 21:19 Taniguchie This is to remind you of what this is and how we should keep it
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2021.12.08 21:19 diiirtydenim Why am I getting EI Every week?
Just wanted to know whether or not this is normal. I’ve only been on ei once in the past, and that was bi weekly. Is this a new thing since the pandemic ? This is my second week, on the program. The website opens up my entries on a weekly basis rather than bi weekly. My next entry period is this weekend (again).
I don’t mind it, I just wanted to know if I should get used to it coming in weekly until I can find work or not.
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2021.12.08 21:19 Routine_Poetry_8767 PLS HELP!! Rust graphics look terrible past 20m
2021.12.08 21:19 orangepomes 300 level options that are still open?
Does anyone know of any easy/fun 300 level options that are still open? I tried using the advanced search function to show all open 300 level courses but there are too many results so it won’t let me look. I individually searched up the gpa boosters I do know of and they’re all full 🥲
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2021.12.08 21:19 robalca_14 Book advice
2021.12.08 21:19 avallance Solo skiing y'all got anymore of those chill chats left or nah
2021.12.08 21:19 TheGuvnor247 PIC
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2021.12.08 21:19 utah_is300 Help
I was driving home, and while taking a right turn between 5-10 MPH, my rear passenger tire hit a small bump.
At that exact time, my check engine light came on, and my TRAC OFF light started flashing. Car is running, breaking, and handles fine. No leaks that I can see, all 4 wheels and tires are fine. Anybody experience something like this??
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2021.12.08 21:19 dropdeaddecadent We're gonna need a bigger banana boat.
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2021.12.08 21:19 Tilion90 [Discussion] The under 1k puzzle thread
This thread is a discussion about puzzles with a piece count under 1000.
Does 1k sound too difficult for you? Are you intimidated by the sheer amount of so many pieces? Maybe you don't have so much free time and still want to puzzle and train your mind? Do you want to get into puzzling but don't know where to start?
Then this thread is the right place for you! Here we will showcase and discuss every puzzle that's under 1k with a focus towards adults!
To start this thread, I invite everyone to post about your puzzles that meet the criteria stated above (and that you personally have done). Post or link your puzzles, tell us what you like and what you didn't. Just keep in mind that it's meant to be for adults!
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2021.12.08 21:19 Derpakiinlol Just noticed my trunk is rusting... What should I do? (Dodge charger 2012)
2021.12.08 21:19 Due_Reflection8386 [homemade] Linguine alfredo with mushroom, bacon and garlic
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2021.12.08 21:19 Ayman788 Sprucing the lessons.
My apologies if this might not be the correct place to post this type of question. I currently teach at a programming school for younger kids (I.E 8-13) and I have been recently getting complaints from the students about the lessons being a tad bit more boring than usual. I usually manage to fit in a few activates alongside the lessons and a break as well. My question is, does anybody have some ideas that they'd be willing to share as to how to spruce up my lessons? It could be something to teach or it could just be another little way to make the lessons more engaging; as I am sure you had the misfortune of feeling like your talking to the wall when online teaching.
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2021.12.08 21:19 Slumdognero Sidequests
2021.12.08 21:19 cameoutswinging_ [LF] a couple specific items to catalogue and tiger prawns [ft] bells, nmt, basically anything you’re after within my means
2021.12.08 21:19 Primon4723 Triggerhappy with Blowpipe
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